Supermom

Some days I feel like supermom and some days I feel like wow, I could have done better today. I always try and do a good job by being understanding, kind, fair and strict. I had a realization today as I explained to my daughter what to do if someone is not being nice to you. I say tell them "you are not being nice, you are hurting my feelings, please go stop." She then says you be mean and I will be nice she points at me and says "GO." I laugh and call her a stinker she smiles and in the loudest voice she could she repeated "you are not being nice, you are hurting my feelings please stop" I smile to myself and think I am doing a good job.

This is when I have my realization I bet most moms think they are doing a great job but wow how many adults have huge issues their parents gave them. How do you know you are doing is the right thing? I guess you have to make the best decision possible and try and not make the same mistakes your parents made. But the truth is you are going to make mistakes and I guess you just hope tons of hours in therapy sessions and group sessions can help.